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Gender is refer the two sexes (male and female), especially
when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than
biological ones. The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of
identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female.
I
found myself in gender realization at age of seven when my class teacher
separate my class into two groups, I found that all the children are not same,
some of us are boys and some are girls, though it was a biological
discrimination but it is the first thing which pinch me, the next time I
remember the gender discrimination at the time of my early teenage, when I was
told that I am a man, I have to study hard to succeed in life, becoming the
earning member of the family and all the sisters of mine are less efficient,
they have to have married first after completing their education, if they want
choose any kind of career, they can only after getting their in lows
permission.
I
was born on 1998 in conservative Brahmin family of rural Bengal. I am single
child of my parents. They brought up me with over fondness. I did not even get
grandmother and grandfather from the early days . So, in our family only three
(3) members are there. My mother is always very much supporting me she is also
my first friend . Though both
of them love
me a lot . when I was
5 years old
they admitted me to a nursery
school. After one week our class teacher gave us a notice to come to
with uniform from next week . My another
took me to a cloth store my mother took me to a cloth store near to our house .
There i wear two or three shirt and pant
for getting the perfect size dress . At last my mother decide a dress
which was slightly bigger than the required size for me . On the first day with
uniform when I reached School i
noticed some of our classmate not
dressed up with some uniform as me. When I returned home at noon, I
immediate asked my mother
that why some of my friends were
different type of dress. My father
then told me about difference of
dress of
them i.e. my father and mother on that day my father
gave me some views of Gender and I could understand that I was boy as well as
male person. My father is also like me.
We are same but I feel bad for my mother as she is not in our side but my
father told me that we and mother all
are also same. No discrimination is there. So on that
day I understand about the gender and also learn from my family that all
are the same .
But
slowly I become getting elder. I understand that there are lots of difference between male and
female. In our parents some economic situation still some people look after
their girl child as their border . As a
result when I was reading class X about
50% of my classmate was girl ,
but in XI or XII i could not final lots of the fear as before.
So , I think as male, or boy , Parents
always encourage as to learn and make as go through the higher education to
settle in life properly.
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